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REJECTION IS PROTECTION: THE ART OF DATING WHILE BISEXUAL
Imagine this — you match Tinder profiles with an independent man who drives a car worth fifty thousand dollars (or more). He’s smart, funny, well-traveled, he’s not an asymmetric model, but you can tell he works out by how his chest and biceps poke through his clothes, which excites you. He’s your type AND someone your friends would gush over.
He posts photos of his family and pets on his social media. He’s respectful and seems to be everything women are complaining about not finding in Youtube videos, leaving you a bit confused because, technically, he doesn’t exist.
And he may just give you “masculine” vibes or what some women call “big D energy.”
You send his Instagram profile to all your friends who confirm that you hit the jackpot. Some question his validity — “Escort?” one friend texts. “Catfish?” another friend suggests. “Gay!” a further friend proclaims.
After meditating and manifesting the whole COVID-19 pandemic, you are genuinely excited to find a man like this, which you feel you are owed after all you’ve been through.
