Oh, I see, and I understand your comment in that context - thank you. That's a great question. Super confusing. Especially if you've spent much time in isolation and are only presented with "two" choices.

In many ways, my bisexuality is also a lens through which I view the world. I'm unsure if it's the same for you, but maybe it's that. I try to have a lot of grace for the homosexual/gay communities. I honestly believe that some of them may "come out" and move past their trauma and think they have arrived at empathy and understanding and are just unaware that there are more layers to explore. Like any other group, some may have no depth or empathy at all...

Thanks for your comment and discourse!